tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post1859383042378640992..comments2023-10-04T12:46:45.791-04:00Comments on Genesis: She is CulturedAlliedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09645842549440271600noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-18978172806917016502008-03-18T06:51:00.000-04:002008-03-18T06:51:00.000-04:00Nice...sad...Nice...sad...ablackjamesbondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06709052380618587109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-76558002273158204912008-03-06T09:50:00.000-05:002008-03-06T09:50:00.000-05:00@ Bumight – You will be surprise how many percenta...@ Bumight – You will be surprise how many percentage of women think it is normal<BR/><BR/>@ Omosewa – Lol... me too.<BR/><BR/>@ Fantasy Queen – I think we have a solution... we should so the same thing but in reverse... Pass the right information down... till the next generation gets it<BR/><BR/>@ Rethots – Is it possible for a man not to hit his wife? YES... How? Respect. Just as he wouldn’t hit his mother when she drives him mad…<BR/><BR/>@ Sasuke – Thanks oh... you this boy, I can see ur soft side oh<BR/><BR/>@ Ms.emmotions – You are right it is not called ignorance... more like forced culture<BR/><BR/>@ Oluwadee – Hmm<BR/><BR/>@ Onydchic – That is the catch “ you will die single” a society that is so craze with “I have to marry” will rather be beaten than not marry.Alliedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09645842549440271600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-5075451578847586392008-03-06T09:47:00.000-05:002008-03-06T09:47:00.000-05:00@ Jinta – Yep… I think we females need to do most ...@ Jinta – Yep… I think we females need to do most of the work. Educate our girls not to take this rubbish and likewise teach their sons how to respect women.<BR/><BR/>@ Misspumping – True… <BR/><BR/>@Today’s ranting – See my reply to Jinta. Because something has gone on for so long doesn’t make it right. I hear women say...”what can we do? Our voice would drown” Please we can all do something.<BR/><BR/>@ Darkelee – I wonder<BR/><BR/>@ Rinsola – yes it can… Serious prayer and wiliness from both men and women<BR/><BR/>@ Ms. Catwalq – U hit the nail on the head<BR/><BR/>@ Uzezi – Yep...<BR/><BR/>@ Queen of my castle – A killing disease disguised as submission.<BR/><BR/>@ IMHARM – Very very true<BR/><BR/>@ S.chic – It is very scary…Alliedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09645842549440271600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-43183625755675940632008-03-06T09:46:00.000-05:002008-03-06T09:46:00.000-05:00@ Fumosh – Thanks@ TLOASCM- A vicious cycle indeed...@ Fumosh – Thanks<BR/><BR/>@ TLOASCM- A vicious cycle indeed. Teaching gets imbedded into culture then it becomes the norm<BR/><BR/>@ Sherri – I seriously pray for that and resistance will ask for a price which I hope we know it is not steep to pay<BR/><BR/>@ You are right, it is not only in Nigeria, the change has to take place in lots of places where women are been subjected to “second beings” – weaker vessels<BR/><BR/>@ Afrobabe – I will like to read your story… Omo hook it up <BR/><BR/>@ Laspapi – When do I get my copy?<BR/><BR/>@ Arewa - I actually saw a woman hit and slam herself against her husband shouting “you must beat me today... beat me”. He did… should I say he was fair? Perhaps. But was he wrong? Yes <BR/><BR/>@ 30+ - Thanks <BR/><BR/>@ Pink Satin – hmm<BR/><BR/>@ Anonymous gal – It takes time to accept this barbaric act of violenceAlliedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09645842549440271600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-51663444068790558952008-03-06T02:30:00.000-05:002008-03-06T02:30:00.000-05:00Annoying story. Annoying in the sense that it happ...Annoying story. Annoying in the sense that it happens. Annoying cos the people that advocate it the most are WOMEN. Enemies of our own progress. It's almost disgusting. If you try to liberate yourself, they say, you'll die single. Rather alone than unhappy. We need to start breaking this mold in our culture, of taking whatever crap is thrown at us.onydchichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02459970153935215583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-919657171508315602008-03-04T13:01:00.000-05:002008-03-04T13:01:00.000-05:00And the cycle goes on and on. This is so wrong, so...And the cycle goes on and on. This is so wrong, so so so so wrong.O'Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678018050951152616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-9060730386209641082008-03-04T12:50:00.000-05:002008-03-04T12:50:00.000-05:00im on a mission today, telling bloggers to update....im on a mission today, telling bloggers to update. im running out of fresh materials things to read! kidding.Zayzeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11907709431101967094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-12616183939813184662008-03-04T12:07:00.000-05:002008-03-04T12:07:00.000-05:00this crazy, a wicked seed planted at a tender age ...this crazy, a wicked seed planted at a tender age to be passed on from generation to generation,<BR/>am lost for words, dont know wat to call this , if i call this ignorance,....will it then m,ean that no educated woman or women ever find themselves in this mess? we all know this is a lie....so sad, like afro said...a vicous circle...hmmmmMs. emmotionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10258010937000796150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-57086595169016934492008-03-03T08:41:00.000-05:002008-03-03T08:41:00.000-05:00Sad And true!“What did you do to him”Must somethin...Sad And true!<BR/>“What did you do to him”<BR/>Must something be done to him?? A man who loves to beat his wife most times don’t even need a reason to. They just do it!princesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09206405119446956019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-33481197697846508932008-03-03T06:22:00.000-05:002008-03-03T06:22:00.000-05:00this babe i done tell say make you go write book. ...this babe i done tell say make you go write book. nice work allied such pure talent, such beautiful pattern of thought, such logical sequence such relatable story..you are simply brilliant.Sasukehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10878324367469330523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-41580768554488664732008-03-01T13:35:00.000-05:002008-03-01T13:35:00.000-05:00...'m awed.Hmmm, what do i see? The sacredness on ......'m awed.<BR/><BR/>Hmmm, what do i see? The sacredness on the union (oops, marriage). <BR/>But then, the question should be, "Is it possible for a man not to hit his wife?" I daresay yes. <BR/>...and the next goes, "How?"rethotshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09863776336604295843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-74523013319307780912008-03-01T04:07:00.000-05:002008-03-01T04:07:00.000-05:00another classic girl...so sad how strong intellige...another classic girl...<BR/>so sad how strong intelligent educated women subjected to this, not able to cry foul cos they have no support from their family.a woman can be broken to a piont of accepting the wrong done to her as a norm, something she must go through,thus passing this lesson to her daughter who would pass it to hers, and thus a generation of women who think its right to be abused by their spouse...pathetic!Joy Akuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11208651697541850438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-12846750757076191572008-02-29T02:51:00.000-05:002008-02-29T02:51:00.000-05:00salud, allied.salud, allied.laspapihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15623856064617482177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-52747913843092943402008-02-27T23:09:00.000-05:002008-02-27T23:09:00.000-05:00lol, its a cycle indeed.I've heard things like if ...lol, its a cycle indeed.<BR/><BR/>I've heard things like if ur husband throws your things out of the house,put them together and go right back in, jokes.<BR/><BR/>I cant imagine my husband hitting me,not to talk of using koboko,lmaooo too funny, just ridiculous.Eyin'ju Oluwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08296158254946758113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-74289603123456685542008-02-27T15:48:00.000-05:002008-02-27T15:48:00.000-05:00vicious cycle and the sad part is when we begin to...vicious cycle and the sad part is when we begin to think its normal...bumighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16921134538404613210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-48742374193833946242008-02-27T14:16:00.000-05:002008-02-27T14:16:00.000-05:00jeezzz... well written... the thought of this abus...jeezzz... well written... the thought of this abuse is just so scary though..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15762360104187658292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-1841071487975294742008-02-27T13:26:00.000-05:002008-02-27T13:26:00.000-05:00When one hears the same thing over and over again,...When one hears the same thing over and over again, it begins to sound right and after a while, we begin to bend, against our will, to the expectations of society.<BR/><BR/>Sad thing is that after a while we then become "society" and preach the very things we rebelled against to the next generation.In my head and around mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07013160510388092321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-21171783029961241042008-02-27T11:10:00.000-05:002008-02-27T11:10:00.000-05:00Ahhhh, such a vicious cycle. I am now prone to bel...Ahhhh, such a vicious cycle. I am now prone to believe that this can be a generational curse. Once one becomes numb to the emotional pain it becomes rather diffucult to empathize with one going through the exact same thing you suffered through. <BR/><BR/>You are such a wonderful story-teller!Queen of My Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09733155605753992587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-5176433236357700912008-02-27T09:22:00.000-05:002008-02-27T09:22:00.000-05:00hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! That's me releasing a long br...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! That's me releasing a long breath! So long. And worth reading too. What goes around comes around.Zayzeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11907709431101967094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-16843040024350748802008-02-26T18:07:00.000-05:002008-02-26T18:07:00.000-05:00Until we decide not to be part of the statistic ca...Until we decide not to be part of the statistic can we reallt discoer ourselves....<BR/><BR/>This was sad and disconcerting.Ms. Catwalqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506293561878301421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-60176937943729271502008-02-26T13:56:00.000-05:002008-02-26T13:56:00.000-05:00Imagine what women go through. But seriously can t...Imagine what women go through. But seriously can this cycle be broken?Rinsolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16798177000810486999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-38064253224040269212008-02-26T13:48:00.000-05:002008-02-26T13:48:00.000-05:00hmm does it have to be the woman?why not ile iyawo...hmm does it have to be the woman?<BR/><BR/>why not ile iyawo ile eko ni? or somin better?<BR/><BR/>this world isnt fair at all<BR/><BR/>God help the women fold.darkelceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08819761365097293555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-23053831186759308012008-02-26T13:24:00.000-05:002008-02-26T13:24:00.000-05:00very nice piece, this is exactly what women experi...very nice piece, this is exactly what women experience in our society - to accept injustice in marriage. Honstly, i've been thinking along this line for a whle now and i'm really concerned with this issue. What exactly can women do to liberate themselves from the oppression from men in patriachal homes? Even when you try to move out of such violent relationships, society wont just let you be.It's even females like you that will rebuke you for trying to stay out of danger and I bet you mothers will encourage you to endure the brutality for your children's sake arghhhhh so sad.What is the solution to this culture of slence???Has any got any offer?Today's rantinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08476983580087583417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-85578512708710296912008-02-26T12:14:00.000-05:002008-02-26T12:14:00.000-05:00well written . however it this also happens where ...well written . however it this also happens where daddy didnt beat mummy some men are just plain wicked .....misspumpingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5664488342471369374.post-34528818082531645052008-02-26T11:48:00.000-05:002008-02-26T11:48:00.000-05:00marriage is based on mutual respect and violence o...marriage is based on mutual respect and violence occurs when respect's gone out the window. <BR/><BR/>great post and i especially liked the alhaji bakare's son analogy. violence begets violence and it is not necessarily only physical. also, it goes both ways and both males and females can work harder to break the cycleJintahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00101860931419415537noreply@blogger.com